5 Tips To Managing Relationships In A Brilliantly Personal Way

How are you managing your relationships?

How do you manage yourself?

🌱Use this time to deal with personal insecurities. Not to beat yourself up, but to reconnect with your identity and purpose. Insecurities are a signal you left yourself somewhere along the path to your purposeful destiny.

🌱If you’re looking for your purpose, maybe it’s time for you to retake an assessment to remind you of all the wonderful and unique qualities you have residing right there - inside of you. Let’s pull it out and lay it out for YOU to see. Reconnect and begin to manage your relationship with you. I suggest you take this journey believing you’re walking this tender path with someone greater than you. That’s right, God is with you. In fact, he’s your biggest supporter and there are signposts of encouragement that you have encountered but maybe didn’t realize its connection.

Relationship management is all about connection. The spark that’s meant to transform a path or shine a light on a quality stepping stone. There are volumes of your life that are being written. Are you actively participating in the plot? Reconnect and put forth the deliberate choice to write or rewrite the story of the amazing friendship with YOU. It’s not surprising we can get overwhelmed by the voices of others, but today focus on a couple of things to help you manage your self-care.

I’ve had to acknowledge character inconsistencies that moved me away from my purpose. Sometimes the acknowledgement is the hardest part. But then comes the question, “Will you take the next step to reconnect to the truth by affirming who you truly are and where you allowed the lie to step in?”  I recreated the story. I felt God’s hand on the pen and his presence as the page turned. 

🌱 Managing relationships in a meaningful, fulfilling way comes first by strengthening the decisions you take to manage your sound, your calling and place in life and the marketplace. Tear down those beliefs that’s limiting the vision of who you truly are. Build the next chapter naming your character-strengths. In fact, rekindle your personal relationship and highlight each one -  - because I believe there are more than you think!

🌱 Become more aware of the images you are projecting and receiving. Don’t resist the moments where you need to stop and give yourself feedback. Apologize for neglecting the gentle whispers. This is the perfect time to receive the grace for cleansing. The time of change and readjustment will be rewarded with a broader and more sound circle of relationships.

🌱 You’re going to have to do the work. Think of it as diligent weeding to make room for you to grow stronger and get the attention you deserve. Pull out your calendar and journal. Daily commitment to nurturing who you are will increase your connection to your life, your career, others planted in your boundaries, meaningful service in your community.

Today as you focus on the first rung of your relationship ladder - use this moment to identify any actions that are not a part of your true character. Use today to build your relationship ladder toward others, how you work, how you live and serve by first reconnecting with yourself. 

Living Life Today in right relationship with you!

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